{"id":3890,"date":"2026-10-02T08:16:27","date_gmt":"2026-10-02T06:16:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.avocat-bouria.com\/fr\/?p=3890"},"modified":"2026-10-02T08:16:28","modified_gmt":"2026-10-02T06:16:28","slug":"138-lavocat-qui-decrypte-les-emotions","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.avocat-bouria.com\/fr\/2026\/10\/02\/138-lavocat-qui-decrypte-les-emotions\/","title":{"rendered":"#138 &#8211; L\u2019avocat qui d\u00e9crypte les \u00e9motions"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-pullquote\"><blockquote><p>\u00ab\u00a0<em>Tout est li\u00e9 \u00e0 l&rsquo;\u00e9motionnel\u00a0\u00bb<\/em><\/p><cite>Franck DEbue <\/cite><\/blockquote><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Embed Player\" width=\"100%\" height=\"188px\" src=\"https:\/\/embed.acast.com\/61e92893b12eb70013d3a6e4\/6abea5e590f8a952d491e93c\" scrolling=\"no\" frameBorder=\"0\" style=\"border:none;overflow:hidden;\"><\/iframe>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Se&nbsp;s\u00e9parer&nbsp;de&nbsp;son&nbsp;associ\u00e9&nbsp;ressemble&nbsp;terriblement&nbsp;\u00e0\u2026&nbsp;un&nbsp;divorce&nbsp;!<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">C\u2019est&nbsp;ce&nbsp;que&nbsp;je&nbsp;me&nbsp;suis&nbsp;dit&nbsp;lorsque&nbsp;j\u2019ai&nbsp;commenc\u00e9&nbsp;\u00e0&nbsp;lire&nbsp;les&nbsp;posts&nbsp;de&nbsp;Franck&nbsp;Debue&nbsp;sur&nbsp;LinkedIn.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nos&nbsp;publications&nbsp;sont&nbsp;presque&nbsp;interchangeables&nbsp;:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Franck,&nbsp;qui&nbsp;est&nbsp;lui&nbsp;aussi&nbsp;avocat&nbsp;au&nbsp;barreau&nbsp;de&nbsp;Bruxelles,&nbsp;accompagne&nbsp;des&nbsp;entrepreneurs&nbsp;mal&nbsp;associ\u00e9s&nbsp;lorsqu\u2019ils&nbsp;doivent&nbsp;envisager&nbsp;une&nbsp;s\u00e9paration.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Moi,&nbsp;j\u2019accompagne&nbsp;des&nbsp;couples&nbsp;qui&nbsp;traversent&nbsp;une&nbsp;rupture.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dans&nbsp;les&nbsp;deux&nbsp;cas,&nbsp;nous&nbsp;rencontrons&nbsp;la&nbsp;m\u00eame&nbsp;difficult\u00e9&nbsp;:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Avant&nbsp;de&nbsp;r\u00e9gler&nbsp;le&nbsp;juridique,&nbsp;il&nbsp;faut&nbsp;r\u00e9ussir&nbsp;\u00e0&nbsp;g\u00e9rer&nbsp;l\u2019humain&nbsp;et&nbsp;\u00e0&nbsp;d\u00e9crypter&nbsp;les&nbsp;\u00e9motions&nbsp;qui&nbsp;traversent&nbsp;le&nbsp;client,&nbsp;le&nbsp;paralysent&nbsp;ou&nbsp;lui&nbsp;font&nbsp;prendre&nbsp;des&nbsp;d\u00e9cisions&nbsp;inad\u00e9quates.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">C\u2019est&nbsp;ce&nbsp;qui&nbsp;m\u2019a&nbsp;donn\u00e9&nbsp;envie&nbsp;de&nbsp;tendre&nbsp;mon&nbsp;micro&nbsp;\u00e0&nbsp;ce&nbsp;confr\u00e8re&nbsp;\u00e0&nbsp;l\u2019approche&nbsp;atypique.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Et&nbsp;il&nbsp;m\u2019a&nbsp;livr\u00e9&nbsp;une&nbsp;partie&nbsp;de&nbsp;ses&nbsp;secrets.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Lorsqu\u2019un&nbsp;client&nbsp;le&nbsp;consulte,&nbsp;il&nbsp;commence&nbsp;par&nbsp;effectuer&nbsp;un&nbsp;audit&nbsp;strat\u00e9gique&nbsp;et&nbsp;explore&nbsp;l\u2019\u00e9motionnel,&nbsp;combin\u00e9&nbsp;\u00e0&nbsp;l\u2019op\u00e9rationnel,&nbsp;au&nbsp;financier&nbsp;et,&nbsp;enfin,&nbsp;au&nbsp;juridique.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Quand&nbsp;la&nbsp;relation&nbsp;avec&nbsp;l\u2019associ\u00e9&nbsp;se&nbsp;d\u00e9saligne,&nbsp;il&nbsp;faut&nbsp;souvent&nbsp;travailler&nbsp;sur&nbsp;soi&nbsp;avant&nbsp;de&nbsp;pouvoir&nbsp;d\u00e9cider&nbsp;de&nbsp;rester\u2026&nbsp;ou&nbsp;de&nbsp;se&nbsp;s\u00e9parer.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Mais&nbsp;nos&nbsp;points&nbsp;communs&nbsp;s\u2019arr\u00eatent&nbsp;l\u00e0&nbsp;:&nbsp;Franck&nbsp;Debue&nbsp;est&nbsp;all\u00e9&nbsp;encore&nbsp;plus&nbsp;loin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Si&nbsp;le&nbsp;client&nbsp;n\u2019est&nbsp;pas&nbsp;r\u00e9ellement&nbsp;pr\u00eat&nbsp;\u00e0&nbsp;effectuer&nbsp;ce&nbsp;travail&nbsp;sur&nbsp;lui-m\u00eame&nbsp;et&nbsp;\u00e0&nbsp;explorer&nbsp;les&nbsp;tr\u00e9fonds&nbsp;de&nbsp;son&nbsp;\u00e2me,&nbsp;il&nbsp;ne&nbsp;peut&nbsp;rien&nbsp;pour&nbsp;lui\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00ab&nbsp;<em>Pas&nbsp;de&nbsp;psy,&nbsp;pas&nbsp;d\u2019avocat<\/em>&nbsp;\u00bb,&nbsp;estime&nbsp;Franck.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pourquoi,&nbsp;avant&nbsp;de&nbsp;chercher&nbsp;une&nbsp;solution&nbsp;juridique,&nbsp;faut-il&nbsp;d\u2019abord&nbsp;r\u00e9gler&nbsp;ce&nbsp;qui&nbsp;se&nbsp;passe&nbsp;dans&nbsp;sa&nbsp;t\u00eate&nbsp;?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Comment&nbsp;savoir&nbsp;ce&nbsp;que&nbsp;l\u2019on&nbsp;veut&nbsp;vraiment&nbsp;quand&nbsp;la&nbsp;col\u00e8re,&nbsp;la&nbsp;culpabilit\u00e9&nbsp;ou&nbsp;la&nbsp;peur&nbsp;de&nbsp;tout&nbsp;perdre&nbsp;brouillent&nbsp;la&nbsp;d\u00e9cision&nbsp;?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Et&nbsp;comment&nbsp;reprendre&nbsp;le&nbsp;contr\u00f4le&nbsp;de&nbsp;la&nbsp;situation&nbsp;pour&nbsp;pouvoir&nbsp;enfin&nbsp;choisir&nbsp;:&nbsp;rester,&nbsp;n\u00e9gocier&nbsp;ou&nbsp;se&nbsp;s\u00e9parer&nbsp;?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">C\u2019est&nbsp;ce&nbsp;que&nbsp;nous&nbsp;avons&nbsp;explor\u00e9&nbsp;avec&nbsp;Franck&nbsp;Debue&nbsp;dans&nbsp;ce&nbsp;nouvel&nbsp;\u00e9pisode.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bonne&nbsp;\u00e9coute&nbsp;!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pour&nbsp;plus&nbsp;de&nbsp;conseils,&nbsp;abonnez-vous&nbsp;\u00e0&nbsp;sa&nbsp;newsletter,&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/lavoclaque.substack.com\/\" rel=\"noopener\" target=\"_blank\">L&rsquo;avoclaque&nbsp;|&nbsp;Ma\u00eetre&nbsp;Franck&nbsp;Debue&nbsp;|&nbsp;Substack<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Elle&nbsp;para\u00eet&nbsp;le&nbsp;1er&nbsp;dimanche&nbsp;du&nbsp;mois&nbsp;\u00e0&nbsp;18&nbsp;h.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00ab\u00a0Tout est li\u00e9 \u00e0 l&rsquo;\u00e9motionnel\u00a0\u00bb Franck DEbue Se&nbsp;s\u00e9parer&nbsp;de&nbsp;son&nbsp;associ\u00e9&nbsp;ressemble&nbsp;terriblement&nbsp;\u00e0\u2026&nbsp;un&nbsp;divorce&nbsp;! C\u2019est&nbsp;ce&nbsp;que&nbsp;je&nbsp;me&nbsp;suis&nbsp;dit&nbsp;lorsque&nbsp;j\u2019ai&nbsp;commenc\u00e9&nbsp;\u00e0&nbsp;lire&nbsp;les&nbsp;posts&nbsp;de&nbsp;Franck&nbsp;Debue&nbsp;sur&nbsp;LinkedIn. Nos&nbsp;publications&nbsp;sont&nbsp;presque&nbsp;interchangeables&nbsp;: Franck,&nbsp;qui&nbsp;est&nbsp;lui&nbsp;aussi&nbsp;avocat&nbsp;au&nbsp;barreau&nbsp;de&nbsp;Bruxelles,&nbsp;accompagne&nbsp;des&nbsp;entrepreneurs&nbsp;mal&nbsp;associ\u00e9s&nbsp;lorsqu\u2019ils&nbsp;doivent&nbsp;envisager&nbsp;une&nbsp;s\u00e9paration. Moi,&nbsp;j\u2019accompagne&nbsp;des&nbsp;couples&nbsp;qui&nbsp;traversent&nbsp;une&nbsp;rupture. Dans&nbsp;les&nbsp;deux&nbsp;cas,&nbsp;nous&nbsp;rencontrons&nbsp;la&nbsp;m\u00eame&nbsp;difficult\u00e9&nbsp;: Avant&nbsp;de&nbsp;r\u00e9gler&nbsp;le&nbsp;juridique,&nbsp;il&nbsp;faut&nbsp;r\u00e9ussir&nbsp;\u00e0&nbsp;g\u00e9rer&nbsp;l\u2019humain&nbsp;et&nbsp;\u00e0&nbsp;d\u00e9crypter&nbsp;les&nbsp;\u00e9motions&nbsp;qui&nbsp;traversent&nbsp;le&nbsp;client,&nbsp;le&nbsp;paralysent&nbsp;ou&nbsp;lui&nbsp;font&nbsp;prendre&nbsp;des&nbsp;d\u00e9cisions&nbsp;inad\u00e9quates. C\u2019est&nbsp;ce&nbsp;qui&nbsp;m\u2019a&nbsp;donn\u00e9&nbsp;envie&nbsp;de&nbsp;tendre&nbsp;mon&nbsp;micro&nbsp;\u00e0&nbsp;ce&nbsp;confr\u00e8re&nbsp;\u00e0&nbsp;l\u2019approche&nbsp;atypique. Et&nbsp;il&nbsp;m\u2019a&nbsp;livr\u00e9&nbsp;une&nbsp;partie&nbsp;de&nbsp;ses&nbsp;secrets. Lorsqu\u2019un&nbsp;client&nbsp;le&nbsp;consulte,&nbsp;il&nbsp;commence&nbsp;par&nbsp;effectuer&nbsp;un&nbsp;audit&nbsp;strat\u00e9gique&nbsp;et&nbsp;explore&nbsp;l\u2019\u00e9motionnel,&nbsp;combin\u00e9&nbsp;\u00e0&nbsp;l\u2019op\u00e9rationnel,&nbsp;au&nbsp;financier&nbsp;et,&nbsp;enfin,&nbsp;au&nbsp;juridique. Quand&nbsp;la&nbsp;relation&nbsp;avec&nbsp;l\u2019associ\u00e9&nbsp;se&nbsp;d\u00e9saligne,&nbsp;il&nbsp;faut&nbsp;souvent&nbsp;travailler&nbsp;sur&nbsp;soi&nbsp;avant&nbsp;de&nbsp;pouvoir&nbsp;d\u00e9cider&nbsp;de&nbsp;rester\u2026&nbsp;ou&nbsp;de&nbsp;se&nbsp;s\u00e9parer. Mais&nbsp;nos&nbsp;points&nbsp;communs&nbsp;s\u2019arr\u00eatent&nbsp;l\u00e0&nbsp;:&nbsp;Franck&nbsp;Debue&nbsp;est&nbsp;all\u00e9&nbsp;encore&nbsp;plus&nbsp;loin. Si&nbsp;le&nbsp;client&nbsp;n\u2019est&nbsp;pas&nbsp;r\u00e9ellement&nbsp;pr\u00eat&nbsp;\u00e0&nbsp;effectuer&nbsp;ce&nbsp;travail&nbsp;sur&nbsp;lui-m\u00eame&nbsp;et&nbsp;\u00e0&nbsp;explorer&nbsp;les&nbsp;tr\u00e9fonds&nbsp;de&nbsp;son&nbsp;\u00e2me,&nbsp;il&nbsp;ne&nbsp;peut&nbsp;rien&nbsp;pour&nbsp;lui\u2026 \u00ab&nbsp;Pas&nbsp;de&nbsp;psy,&nbsp;pas&nbsp;d\u2019avocat&nbsp;\u00bb,&nbsp;estime&nbsp;Franck. &#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[24,186],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3890","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-podcast","category-saison-07-podcast"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.avocat-bouria.com\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3890","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.avocat-bouria.com\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.avocat-bouria.com\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.avocat-bouria.com\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.avocat-bouria.com\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3890"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.avocat-bouria.com\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3890\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3892,"href":"https:\/\/www.avocat-bouria.com\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3890\/revisions\/3892"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.avocat-bouria.com\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3890"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.avocat-bouria.com\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3890"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.avocat-bouria.com\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3890"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}